Homecoming coronation or no homecoming coronation, South Plantation High School football coach Doug Gatewood was not exactly in a festive mood Thursday night.
His undefeated Paladins were leading Hollywood Hills only 13-0 at halftime of a lackluster effort when his third-string quarterback, Erin DiMeglio, was pulled aside for the ceremony that crowned her the school’s homecoming queen. Tucking one flower under her pink wristband to fashion a makeshift corsage and another in her hair, she took her place next to wide receiver Hordly Seide, who was named homecoming king.
“I was in the middle of yelling at them,” Gatewood said of his halftime “pep talk.” But fear not.
“When they got done, she handed her flowers and stuff to Bethany [Gatewood’s wife],” he said, “and then I finished my speech.”
Even the queen got yelled at?
“She’s part of the team,” Gatewood said. “She catches it like everyone else.”
“The girl quarterback” had now officially lived every little girl’s dream.
Well, every modern-day girl, anyway, who may not necessarily covet spending every day after school getting slammed into the dirt herself, but applauds the fact that DiMeglio can and does.
The 17-year-old senior has been the story of high school football in Florida this season, which is saying something considering that her team belongs to the largest classification in the state, is ranked in the top 10 and has a running back in Alex Collins who leads the county in rushing and has been recruited by powerhouses Miami, Florida and Florida State.
“She’s not playing on some rum-dumb team,” said the always-entertaining Gatewood. “We’re really good and she’s part of the team. The fact that she doesn’t play that much is not a knock on her, we’re just really good.”
DiMeglio has played. After attracting national attention for first joining the team -- Gatewood urged her to come practice with the boys after coaching her on the girls' flag football team -- and then completing two passes in a preseason game, she began the season rather quietly, with two handoffs in South Plantation’s season opener.
After six games, she has thrown only three passes, completing one for minus-2 yards.
But it was never about that, she has insisted.
“I understand that I’m not the best quarterback on the team,” she said in an interview with espnW last month. “I just have fun on the sideline and I like being part of the team. Being a quarterback also helps me with my leadership. That’s one thing that helped me decide to play -- helping my leadership so I can bring that to basketball.”
“Leadership” for DiMeglio used to be pretty much defined by her becoming exasperated with her basketball and flag football teammates when they weren’t playing up to her standards. Her flag football coach prior to Gatewood (also Gatewood’s former defensive coordinator) didn’t care for the attitude and didn’t mind telling her or his replacement after he left for a head-coaching job at another high school.
That made for a nice little revenge factor when South Plantation played against Piper High School and DiMeglio completed her first pass against her former coach.
But when DiMeglio looks back at her senior year, her memories will not always include the obvious highlights. There was the game against J.P. Taravella in Coral Springs two weeks ago, for example, when, following a handoff, she absorbed a teeth-rattling late hit that drew a penalty flag.
“What happens on that particular play,” Gatewood explained, “is that once the quarterback hands off, they have to bootleg and carry out the play fake. Normally, the defender just grabs the quarterback to let him know, ‘I know you don’t have the ball.’
“But in this case, he came at Erin full-force and teed off on her. She had some bad words for him after that.”
“He just slammed her,” Bethany Gatewood said. “But she popped right back up.”
Of course, still angry on the next play, she launched a pass that resulted in an interception which was returned for a touchdown. But the Paladins still ended up with the victory and DiMeglio with a few new battle scars.
And, as of this week, she has another distinction as the winner of the Florida Achievement Award for Women (under 25), given by the state’s Attorney General’s Office.
“She never meant for any of this to happen,” said Bethany Gatewood, who has unofficially taken charge of the blizzard of media requests for the girl quarterback. “But she has taken it and embraced it.”
And even Bethany's husband has come along for the ride.
“I’m not a big Facebook person, but I actually wrote on it today,” the coach said.
His new status?
… How proud am I. The Homecoming King and Queen are both on my football team. Funny, but cool.